Of all the Polish traditions that my family celebrates throughout the year, the centuries-old tradition of Oplatki has always been my favorite. The word Oplatki means Angel Bread. For us, in addition to many other Slavs, the tradition of Oplatki
holds such an intense significance that it is just short of
heavenly. Through this tradition, Slavs recognize the time when
God nourished the Israelites during their flight from Egypt with
Manna. We also recall when Jesus gave His apostles His Body under
the appearance of bread. My entire family, whose strong, proud
Catholic heritage is rooted in Poland, annually celebrates this
Christmas tradition.
When practicing this custom my Polish family is required to use specific traditional Oplatki wafers. Like Manna and the hosts used in the Mass, Oplatki wafers are similar to unleavened bread. Oplatki comes in different colors such as white, pink, blue and
green. Beautiful Christmas images, such as the Nativity or
the Star of Bethlehem are pressed into the fragile Oplatki wafers. These beautiful imprints serve to remind me of the true meanings of Christmas: God and family.
Traditionally, the white Oplatki is eaten by
humans while the household animals enjoy the colored wafers. In
this way, we as Poles honor the family animals since they were the only
eye witnesses to Christ's birth, besides Mary and Joseph. Being
unaware of this custom, my Polish family has always eaten the colored
wafers ourselves. When I became aware of this fact, I was sure to
inform my family of it. After all, we would not prefer to be
known as the "family animals"!
The annual tradition of Oplatki begins in the days before Christmas when Polish families purchase their Oplatki either from their parish or from a local bakery. Since my family does not live near a Polish bakery, we buy our Oplatki from our Catholic parish. People in some cultures, such as the Slovenians, have their Oplatki blessed before it is used in the Christmas Eve meal. My family's Oplatki is bought after it has been blessed by our Catholic priest.
Celebrating the Christmas Eve Feast in a Polish
household requires many preparations, since it marks the beginning of
the most significant holiday for Poles. The tradition of Oplatki
plays an important role in this banquet, since it is with this ceremony
that the feast, and indeed the Christmas season itself, is
opened. When Christmas Eve finally comes, the women bustle about
their kitchens baking traditional foods. My family's two
favorites are kielbasa and sauerkraut (a Polish dish of sausage and
sour cabbage), and pirogue (fried pockets of dough filled with cheese,
meat or potatoes). As these ethnic foods are being prepared, my
sister and I begin setting the table. Before setting the table for
this magnificent feast, a layer of straw is laid beneath the family's
tablecloth, recalling Christ's humble birth in a manger. During
this time, a member of our family, usually my father, is responsible
for retrieving the Oplatki wafers from their hiding place. Finally, the Christmas Vigil Feast, which is centered around the tradition of Oplatki, is ready!
In accord with the Slavic culture, my Polish family begins by
giving each member an Oplatki wafer, which he or she is not permitted
to eat. While my grandma and my mom are passing out the Oplatki,
my siblings and I become so excited that we have to be reminded not to
start the ceremony among ourselves until the rest of the family has
received their wafers. This waiting is especially intense for my
little brothers! In order to receive a piece of wafer from a
relative, you must bless him or her in some way. After this, he
or she blesses you, and you give them a piece of your Oplatki
in return for this favor. Of all my family members, my grandma is
the one with whom I most enjoy exchanging blessings; she always thinks
of the best ones. She often wishes me academic success or a
better relationship with my siblings. I usually wish her good
health in the coming year. Many family members, especially my
grandma, accompany their well-wishes with kisses and embraces.
This process continues until everyone has exchanged blessings with all
the other family members. Afterwards, the whole family gathers
around the table for the much anticipated Christmas Eve meal.
My Polish background makes the Christmas Eve tradition of Oplatki
exceptionally meaningful to me. This custom helps me to remember
all of my relatives who have passed away, and the important roles they
played in our family. I especially remember my grandpa, who died
before I was born, and my cousin's grandfather, who passed away very
recently. Oplatki also helps me to remember the tales
about my ancestors. I remember stories about grandpa fighting in
World War II, and my great-great grandparents emigrating from
Poland. I recall hearing about the kindness of my great-grandma
Veronica, after whom I am named, and the trials that our ancestors
endured throughout history. These family legends bring to my mind
vivid images of my relatives. Even though they passed away,
whenever the living members of my family celebrate Oplatki, I feel that we are united with them. The custom of Oplatki makes me proud of my Polish family and heritage.
After studying Polish culture, I have now come to a
greater understanding of how much our ancestors suffered over the years
to keep their religion, traditions and folklore alive so that we, as
their descendants, would be able to remember the days of old.
Each year the tradition of Oplatki becomes even more meaningful
for me as I learn more about Christ. This tradition reminds me
that no matter how separated we are from one another throughout the
year, my family will always be united in the Body of Christ. It is my
prayer that this cherished custom will be carried on, not only in our
actions, but in our hearts, for generations to come.
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